Envy and thank you

Envious feeling and appreciation are apparently opposite feeling but I sometimes notice that those poles are both coin sides , easy to be turned around to either side. I have long cherished envious feeling to the woman who neglected my proposal when I was younger but on the other side it is true that I learned a lot from that bitter experience when I was so immatured. I may meet her after a long interval at the reunion party this autumn so I just want to say the word of appreciation.  

Learn from our ancestors

After my mother died a couple of years ago, I had several chances to learn my ancestors old stories that I have never known. One outstanding anecdote that I happened to have known was while I was watching the TV program when my dead grandfather’s photo was there that astonished me so much. Anyway when we learn more about our ancestors, it means we face our inner self and learn more about ourselves. For my case, what I learned from my dead relative who had achieved outstanding job by giving merciful judge to the weak and poor plaintiff is that I also have the similar gene that don't obey easily to the great influential power.

Tackling with hard task

Tackling with long pending task must be for everyone’s headache. My hint how to deal with such troublesome task is very simple. In your brain imaging that any huge task can be shattered into pieces, and every pieces are not big deal. Therefore first of all try to make any first small step. After you managed to make that initial step, please praise yourself and take a rest. Now you will have more motivation and energy to make further steps. In this way your work will be accelerated gradually and finally complete the task.