Last night I watched on TV program that featured about people's reluctance about marriage by inviting guests of famous actresses who are not still married.The common reason for their not marring,as far as I noticed,was that they judge their candidates for future partner just by their short term date.More in detail,when they had dinner together and that woman noticed some bad manner he does while eating,she feels disappointed at the moment and stop her relation with him.THough it's the case with such high class women like beautiful actress,I think such case can also be applied to common women as well to some extent.From my experience that keeping several years good relation with Tomoko,I think it's too early to decide by such trifle thing because when couples keep on their relations,they both will recognize many bad points one after another.However,it's also true that they also find many good points on the contrary.After acknowledging all of that,we should more fairly make decision for marriage.